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Reaching out for a friend who has decided that her boyfriend is everything to her and you don't matter as much to her anymore.

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I really loved this poem. Even my friend did the same thing. When her boy friend was not there she always talked to me,always took my help but now she doesnt care for me anymore. For her, her boyfriend is everything and I am nothing.
Hi Jill,After reading your poem. I feel something different. People comes and goes,but here, people come for us,but when they get someone else,they will never turn up to us,and one day our own lovable friend will ask us "Who are you?" This is happening with me again and again,I am really feared to make a friend now, because oneday they ignore us,just because they get new ones,I hate such friends,It really make me to cry,but I wont cry,because my tears is of no use for her,well ,Thats really good to read it
This poem reminds me of what im am going through at the moment with my best friend: i try and tell her but she just doesnt listen and the lad is horrible to her as well if only she could see sense im goin to show her this poem and see if it will make her think. Thanks x
This poem was very touching and very true. I have a situation with a "friend" that this poem describes exactly.

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I reached out for your hand
You didn't seem to care;
You can only reach so far
When no one else is there.

Others also reached for you
Hoping to make you see;
That we're just as important
As he will ever be.

We wish we could reach further
But we are only so strong;
We hoped your eyes would open
So that you'd see you're wrong.

It hurts to have to reach far
When you once were so near;
It's hard shouting out for you
With our voices you don't hear.

We wish you'd extend your hand
And sense the friendship there;
Knowing what our memories mean
Showing us you still care.

We realize you don't reach back
Instead his hands with yours;
You can't handle both the worlds
So you close common doors.

We're done reaching for the past
You are now on your own;
We hope he is all worth it,
Without him you're alone.

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I like this peom, it reminds me of some of my lost friendships. I really like it, and from one poemest to another, that really touched me.
omg i luv thiz thiz iz how i feel rite now wit my bestfriend datin ma brotha but it really hurtz 2 think he meanz more 2 her then i do
i had to comment on this poem. This is exactly how i feel right now with my best friend. She just doesnt seem to remember that before her boyfriend i was always there. That ive been there longer than he has. That ive seen her in her lowest lows and helped her overcome huge struggles. Now she can just leave me behind because of him. At times i just cant even fathom why anyone would do that to someone who was once so close to there hearts. Anyways, thanks so much for this poem, i even cried a little. It truly spoke to me and i hope that you and i can find someone new that wont take us for granted. Definitly keep writing, your great.
I'm in a situation like this and if I showed this to my best friend now, I'm not so sure she'd accept it, but once hes gone . the truth is gonna hurt :(
This Poem really Touched Me !
i love this poem. see i've been best friends with this one girl since i was 2 . now im 13. that 11 years. and then i started liking this one guy and found out he liked my best friend and she liked him. i wanted her to be happy so i hooked them up. but now they've been going out for half a year and she has just started ignoring me and giving all her attention to him and im tired of working so hard just to be a third wheel. and he totally disrespects me and she doesn't even say anything about his rude comments or ne thing like she's on his side. i've tried to tell her how i feel but she just doesn't get it. so i sent her this poem and hopefully she'll understand. but i think it's about time i move on . hopefully one day she'll realize how much she hurt me. beautiful poem it's like you know exactly what im going through. five stars.
this was a great poem with so much meaing send me a letter and ill have a gr8 feeling
This is exactly what I am going through with my best friend. She said he would never come between us and now she rarely speaks to me. And when she does its all him. She thinks he is god.
this poem is just great it reminds me of my friend lisa because when she goes out with her boyfriend she dnt want to know us but when she isplits up with him she trys to get back into the group of friends so we told her to go and leave us for good i felt nast and betrayed but it was the only thing we could do to stop her using us for nwhen shes got nobody
I really liked this poem. I have been in a situation just like this with one of my friends. I guess you cant really call them my friends now. I encourage you to write more poems because you are just wonderful!
That was really good. I have a friend who's coming to that. I try to tell her the right thing to do and she didnt. I like this poem.
Hmm I really liked this poem. My Interpretation probably isnt the same as yours. but i did touch me :) My best friend is using a lot a drugs. and instead of my hand. he takes the drugs hands. If that makes any sence. and everyone is in front of himtrying to help im, but he chooses not to see.
I really like this poem it reminds me what i am going through RIGHT now. My friend decided to put a guy that she has only knew for a couple months than me who she has knew for 3 or 4 years.
This poem is the best i have heard in a while. Me and my x-best friend just had this huge fight like a week ago and she rather be with a boy that she have known for a couple of months than with her best friend that she has known for 3 or 4 years. Come on!
i like the poem alot better then most i read on poem sites
oh my god, i love your poem . i'm crying so hard right now. my best friend and me have been friends for five years, and when she started dating her boyfriend, i couldn't reach her any more, it was gradual, but i knew we weren't the same any more. i could talk to her with tears in my eyes and beg her to open up to me like she used to, and she wouldn't care. so she just out and told me she didn't want anything else to do with me. i haven't let myself hurt about it until right now. thank you.
OMG this poem is soooo GOOD! i LOVE it! alot of my friends used to say this about me, that i wasnt there because i was with my bf =( in the end i realised he wasnt worth it. and then i went back to my friends for support, luckily they forgave me! i love to write poems, im only 13 (almost 14 hehe) but yeah, i still find it so good to get my feelings out! your poem has INSPIRED me to do so much better. THANK YOU =)
my friend would rather her boyfriend than me her best friend. she'll rater hold his hand than than talk to me or her twin. i sent this to her and maybe she'll see she meens more to me
OMG this poem is so AWSOME. its like exactly what im going through with my best friend. it just seems like her new boy friend is her world and im nothing anymore. i feel ur pain too. im so glad that there is finally a poem about this. iv looked everywhere. i actaully write them myself. but yes this is great. the only this is with me is that i havent yet told her "im no longer reaching" AWSOME POEM!1
i love this poem because this is exactly how i feel right now. i look up to you for writing this. i write poems too. my "bestfriend" is dating my exboyfriend and it just hurts. i feel like i've been replaced by him. but i give this poem 5 stars.
Thanks so much for writing your poem! I'm sorry that you lost a best friend like that. (. It happens to the best of us. If it helps any, I look at it as a way of discovering who your true friends are.
omg-i love ur poem! i know everyone's saying this, but i know what it's like. my bestest friend, who was the only person i could talk to or cry with, got a boyfriend. she promised we'd never lose eachother, but then she chose him over being our friend, and we miss her so bad!
this poem remind me of a friend who was the same way i really liked it and sometimes i didnt understood why but now i see why it was
this poem touched me. its exactly what i'm going through right now, my friend of 17years and best friend for 7 of them years has totally turned her back on me and all her other friends because of her boyfriend. i've read your poem over and over again, its so good!
Well . i finally found the right poem for me, i know how u feel or felt, the same thing happened to me, i lost my best friend who was a girl to this guy i introduced her too, we've been friends for 8 years now then everything just went to crap! Shes now changed and her bf has completley changed as well, it has been an emotionall struggle for me over the past 2 years of me constantly holding onto our friendship when she didn't want to know - obviously shows how much she apreciated our friendship.
Mindy Jo
Awsome poem. written well. Thank you for sharing and know we all feel that way when a friends turns away
this is really good:)
This is the most real and touching poem I've ever heard!
i like this poem b/c it hits home for me. i lost my friend (or X-friend) shea b/c she chosse her boyfriend over me and all of her old friend. now all she has is her boyfriend and if he ever leaves her she will be all alone b/c we wont ever forgive her (we can't trust her anymore)
this poem tells just like my story except its about a man. I cried when I read this . its so true & you made such a good point . about letting go
A very good friend of mine is turning her back on all of her friends and family for a guy who is a psycho control freak. She has so many people who have helped her, given her support and comfort every time this guy upsets her and vanishes for days. But the second he calls . everybody else ceases to exist. It's pathetic. It hurts. it's frustrating and it's time to let her go. This poem expresses exactly how I feel. Thank you.
I love this poem because i could relate to it. This poem is exactly for me and my friendship with someone special.
hi there, that was a really wicked poem! i really enjoyed reading it! hope you come up with some more good ones like that! bye
I just lost a friend who is making some bad choices to be with a guy who abuses her. Your poem really says how I feel towards her. Beautifully done!
thank you soo much for writing that, i have a friend who has done that same thing, completely rude and untouched by her friends' words to get to see what she has become, some one i can not stand, when she used to be a good friend of mine. its funny though, she can turn her back on us so easily on to her bf (who has cheated on her & they have already broken up twice, then got back together)but so can i, but against her and all that i used to remember her for
this poem really touched my heart
Hey I love your poem-My guy friend and I are really tight but he just doesn't want to be anymore than friends-
This poem REALLY touched me in so many ways cause i had a friend who chose her boyfriend over me and i felt like i couldnt be able to get over it cause it really hurt me so thank you for your poem. Love jess
sandy (sis)
Great This one hits home in so many ways
my friend is doin the same thing 2 me. but im still trying 2 b her friend. i no its hard
This poem is true for alot of people, including me. My best friend who I have known basically all of my life, did the same thing to me. i wish all of you luck in finding another to make you feel special.
this is a very true poem . i want to thank you for putting it on this site . it really touched me in a special way . because im going through the same thing with a friend . thank you so much now i know im not the only one who feels this way.
this is awesome!bf's/gf's over friends isn't cool!
WOW! that was sooo incredibly FANTASTIC! keep on writn soon enough you will be a famous poet!
I luved ur poem b-cuz dats wat happened with me n my friend too,n i dont now wat happened we use to be so close too,but she hangs around with other ppl n so do I,so ya,but anyway from a scall to 1 to 10 i so give u an 11!
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