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This poem truly expresses what comes from a mother's heart. When my son was about to turn 18, I decided to start writing poetry again. This was one of the first poems I wrote. It is an intimate detail of how I feel about him.

I gave it to him on his 18th birthday last month. He sobbed uncontrollably as he read it.

Your Gift To Me

Dear Christopher,

Let me try to describe the gift that you have given to me,
Although, I believe that will be a major undertaking.
Since it is quite difficult to describe in ordinary language.
Your arrival 18 years ago was unmistakably
Marked with anxious trepidation.
The journey you undertook
Was not of a scheduled nature,
But more of a conscious decision.
By far, the finest creative gift was you.
For when you emerged into my world,
I became reborn
With my heart so willing to share its wealth.
There you were, a small wonder; a tiny reflection
Of combined traits which would ultimately be recreated
Into the distinctive person you have become.
I never realized that my heart
Was so willing to share so much love
With a stranger so small and needy.
You didn't arrive with instructions
It was strictly learn as you go.
I remember the first time you crawled
Army style on your belly for the longest time.
You walked with support for those many months
But when it came to taking those first steps,
Long after the cake and ice cream that I
Really didn't want you to eat.
It wasn't until that one day, totally unexpected that
You did it all by yourself.
From then on, it seemed to get a little bit easier
Since you had this great disposition
And that smile that went all the way across.
You had a little sister on the way.
And you became that special big brother
That you turned out to be.
Sharing and loving
Was not something that you had to learn.
Even at that young age,
You became the teacher.
Ever so patient, so caring, so you.
To carry on a family trait that you will certainly pass on.
As you grew, you obtained a wonderful gift of laughter
I offered you the tools to learn and trust and to be a confident person.
You showed me that you can be an independent person.
That day you climbed on to the enormous, yellow school bus for the first time
You looked so small, yet so ready to embark upon a new venture.
It rolled down the street
And so did those tears in my eyes
Not because I was sad but because a new chapter in your life was beginning.
You are an intelligent, sensible, affectionate and sympathetic person,
Who always seems to be there for those whose lives you touch.
You have an extraordinary enthusiasm and passion for learning.
You have the ability to communicate your inner most thoughts,
Where so many your age do not.
I am blessed for that.
Now, you will be going off on your own
Making decisions that you may not be able to pass by me
That will affect your life.
You may fall down
But I know that you will always pick yourself up
And begin again.
I never thought that I would look up to someone your age
But that has become evident.
As you look at us side by side; the bond will not be broken.
The stranger that entered my life not so long ago,
Has certainly been transformed into a young man.
That I am proud to call . . .
My son.

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Visitor Comments (from the Voting form)
Karin
Mrs Joyce Sousa, Your poem is soo touching!I'm a first time mother and even know my son is still small,I have all Hoppes for him to do well in this world. Personally I never feared life so much as i do now for his well being. All the toughts about everything we need to teach,and the responsability we accepted from day one to keep our little ones save,well,happy and wiser. Your poem is a mothers heart,our happinness on all big achievements you saw your little one do,and i slowly see mine doing. Congratulations on Your Son. God Bless!
Robin
My son is having a rough time right now and this poem will help let him know just how special he is to me and how special my life is with him in it. Thank you for having Christopher and deciding to go back to writing poems!
luisana
joyce, ur letter to your son touched my heart incrediably, i ended up in tears before i even finished reading it. I am a first time mom. I am as any mom would be, scared of this big responsability God has placed in front of me. Your letter truly inspired me. Mother hood is something you learn as you go and as you said it raising a baby doesn't come with instructions =}. Thank you for sharing your poem with us. As a single mother i'am glad to hear that even though life can be hard bringing a baby to this world is reward all on it's own. May God bless you and your family.
Mary
I love this poem. I am a single mom of a grown son and this peom says everything that I ever felt or feel about my baby. 22 year old. but you are so right about the love that is between mother and son is unbreakable.
wane
great poem - amazing - as stated in email to author thank you farewell for now wane x
Karen
AWESOME!
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