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My grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease when I was 18 years old. Over the course of the past 10 years she has slowly left us all alone. Her memories of us have left her, although mine of her have not.

My poem is about some of those special memories that I have of her and of how very much I miss her.

A Few Visitor Comments

Pat
Thank you Tara. My Mom had alzhimers so she also died twice. The second time was a blessing. Enjoy your memories, and keep writing.
Cindy
I have a Mom just like your Grandma who like yours is "in there" somewhere, but can't come out to play. I didn't even get to say goodbye, because by the time I knew she was leaving, it was like it was too late. Your poem is so touching and I thank you for sharing your pain and love. Hold your Grandma's hand. I like to believe that somehow they know we're there.
kam
wow. thats beutiful in a way, but sad in another. such a bad thing sorry
marie
how very very sad,but at least you remember your grandma in all her glory,god bless you,her mind will never die as long as you keep it alive in safe keeping with your very prescious memories

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Missing Grandma

I have a grandma . . .
who hugs, kisses, smiles and says, "My, how you've grown" whenever she sees
me.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who plays in the creek at deer camp and helps me catch Cray fish without
going eeewww.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who can teach me how to play solitaire three different ways and not snitch
if I cheat.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who tells the most wonderful stories, snorts when she laughs, and has a
joke with four punch lines.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who comes to my tea parties, plays dress up and always lets me be the
queen.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who drives a sporty purple car, very fast just to make me and my sister
laugh out loud.
but not anymore . . .

I have a grandma . . .
who has Alzheimer's disease, doesn't know my name or even say, "My how
you've grown" when she sees me
but she's not my grandma . . .

I want her to let my grandma come out to play.

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danielle
this poem is fantastic for all the children who have lost there nan's its gergous
melissa
I loved the poem. Very sad, but true.
nurul
I love it so much. My grandma passed away when i was sitting for my examination only god knows how much i love her. shes everything. ur poems put my situation into a nice piece of rhythm. shes suffering of cancer. losing lots of bloods everyday. each time her tumour bleeds. aniway to all of you who lost love ones may they rest in peace and those with granny treasure them while u can. believe me it is never a regret to love them. be strong yeah. have faith
LINDA
i just like to say. that i really injoy all of the poetry. that i have read. i loved marilyn. her poetry really dose bless me. and i did have a mother in law. that she did not even know her sons. and what really hurt. were that she did not even remember her grandchildren. she used to laugh and injoy life. but somewhere down the road. her mind started to go bad. and she were never the same again. she went home to be with our presicous lord in 2001. and my father in law passed away this past july. so keep up the good work that god has given you. with all the beautiful poetry. and may god blessing be with you alway. in christ love. linda.
armetta
That is a very toching poem my grandma is my life and i know how it feels to have a grandparent not no who you are anymore
heather
i really liked that poem that happened to me too you know i am now 23 but that was really good
yvette
wow! this poem went in deep in my heart it even made me cry because thats kind of the same thing that is happening to me right now.
Annabell
This poem really mad me sad to read it, My grandma is now at the last vital stage of Alzheimers so i know how the poet feels. xx
janice
i know how you feel just two days ago my grandmama past away and some time i think is just a bad dream but is not i wish shell come back to me
lily
My grandma got a broken neck this is exacly how she is i love this poem!
Alyssa
I loved your poem it really touched me see my mammaw just passed in january, and I'm not dealing with it to well, cause she was more than my grandma, she was my mom, my teacher, my bestfriend, my hero, and I didn't realize just how much I depended on her until she was gone, it also kills me that my two girls will never meet the person who meant the most to me.
bethan
when i wos on holdy my grandpa fond me and broke the nows to mei wos so agrey that she did in that way i wont to kill my seve but i now we will meet a gen sume time
Monica
This poem is very nice, realistic and sad. I am a 30 year old woman, her 1st grandchild of 22 the youngest are 2 years old and my grandma is 77 years old. She got diagnosed with Alhzeimer just a few months back. She stills remember all of us, but forgets many other things. The doctor told us that eventually she will not remember us either. This is a poem that touched me deaply because eventually I will want my grandma to come out and play.
veronica
I just love this poem. It bought great memories and tears. I cried as I read it along with the other comments that was posted. I remembered my grandmother and the person she used to be. My grandmother was diagnosed with alzheimer's last year but I think she was showing symptoms back in 2004 when I used to call her and she would slurr her words and repeat herself but I didn't know until last year. Now when I call her, I never know what kind of day she's having cuz of the way her mind is. I sure miss her alot! and I know just where you are coming from and I feel for you. Just keep your chin up and remember all the good times you and your grandmother had. ok. and I'll do the same. We'll be ok.
Sarah
I loved it. It really touched me because my Grandmother just died of the same thing.
thomas
I't make me thank about my grandma that i love a lot. She is the best grandma. if you can writ me back You'e Friend Thomas Frye
jan
MY GRANDMA ALSO HAS THE SAME THING FOR THE LAST 11 YEARS. SHE DIED TWO WEEKS AGO. SO I KNOW FIRST HAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. BUT JUST REMEMBER SHE IS STILL YOUR GRANDMA SHE JUST DOES NOT REMEMBER THAT BUT YOU DO AND THAT IS WHAT COUNTS.
Kristan
I loved it, but how do u write poems on the internet to get published?
vikki
I liked this poem because it really tells it how it is. I am going threw this with my mom and I feel the same way.
alanna
My grandma is in the hospital right now she just got cancer again for the 3rd time. This was a really good poem.
lisa
After reading this is was in tears, as i had a grandma who died of Alzheimer's in '2000'. Im in my teenage years and she was always there to help me through tough times in life and to make me laugh, i always hoped she would help me through these tough teenage years.
Sabrina
I just wanted to say that this poem really really touched me because i am 17 years old and my grandma might have this disease. And im afaird that she is going to forget about us forever. No matter what happens, she will always be in my heart. I love this poem because these are som things that me and my grandma would do together before she got sick and all. Thank you for listening to what i have to say. Bye
Kassandra
this was great even for someone that has not been around anything like it good Job !
Sam
This was an amazing poem. I have a very close relationship with my grandmother and she also has the same disease. It was a very touching poem and it made me cry.
samantha
this poem really touched me cause i know how it feels my grandma was diagnosed with Leukaemia around easter and from them till about three weeks ago my family had been going to see her every day, and i watched my grandma get weaker and weaker until one day i come home from school and my mum broke the news to me and it was hard. My grandma held my family together she was a wounderfull person and a person i will never forget, i love her, i miss her and my only wish would be that she didn't have to die that way.
emma
it made me feel a bit sad when i read ur poem as my nan died in march and i miss her like crazy.
Louise
I like this poem because it touch my heart because I have a grandmother that died a few years ago and this poem remind me of her thank you for writing this poem I miss my grandmother too
Amanda
I really like this poem, because I really know how you feel. I have a grandma with alzheimer too. And I really understand what you're going through right now. I know that you feel like hidding and start crying because you just cant believe your grandma can't recognize you.
Samantha
This touched my heart, I hope and I pray that I don't get this as I would miss so much from my Grand children.
Qubra
Hei Tara, just wanna say that this poem brought a memory of ma grandmom. I had one whom i knew in 2 and a half yrs and then she disappeared,u know what i mean. But this poem means alot to me, hope she knows that i love and that i always pray for her soul. I love this poem;)
beth
This poem was very touching. I work in a alzheimers home and i see it everyday and it breaks my heart. Knowing how the persons family feels makes me love my job even more.
Linda
This poem touched my personally, as my own mother was diagnosed with early onset Alheimers at 53 and was in a vegetative state within 4 years. At the time our daughter was only 4 years old and by the time she was in 4th grade she had become affected by the loss of her grandmother and did a research paper on it for laungage. It brought back those memories.
Susan
This poem was very touching. The only thing I can say is I LOVED IT.
ali
my grandma has no idea who i am and this poem made me cry cuz its like me i sent her this and never heard back
michelle
it was a really well written poem and i dont know
charlotte
tara ur poem touched me . i havent lost n e 1 close 2 the illness but i no of its affects . but its still touched me after my grandfather pasted away and wanted 2 let u no tht it has given me some comfort in tht i c gd memories wil alwys b with us and they will hide the bad 1s and i wuld like 2 say . altho ur grandmother was not the same person as the illness grew worse . now her spirit is free 2 b her agen and altho im sure she seemed like a different person on the outside on the inside she had the same heart. n her love wil alwys b with u and waiting 4 u wen u meet agen . x thnx x
sheila
My Mum has dementia, she is not my Mum as I know her. I still love her though because she still looks like my Mum, but the words don't say what my Mum used to say. No matter what happens though, she will always be my Mum. For reasons only known to themselves, my Son and his wife won't let me see my first and only Granddaughter Sophie. One day Sophie may lose me to dementia or Alzheimers - I hope I get to know her before then, I would like her to remember me as I am now.
Linda
tara i know how you fell about your grandma because i had a grandma i thought who hung the moon i love her with all my heart and now she gone she died in 1972 i still miss her as life it self please keep writing poems about your grandma or anyone you can thank you for your site and most of all thank you for shareing with alll Linda
Nikki
I know how you feel. We found out my grandfather has Alzheimer's disease three years ago. This poem really touched me because I didn't know how to put it into words. I miss how my paw-paw used to act. Now we have to take care of him. He means so much to me I hate to see him like this.
cari
this is a great poem yes it is sad but it is good thankyou for writing it It reminds me of my grandma
Marie
The poem toched my heart.
Aubrey
This is what happened to my Grandma, this past year she passed away because she was ill, she had cancer in her liver. All the medication she was on made her not know me, always think someone who was there to take care of her is goin to hurt her.
Kirsten
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jamie
Tara, this is a lovely poem. I am 26 years old and have a 6 year old son. I have been taking care of my grandmother who is much more like a mother for almost a year. She was diagnosed with complete Renal failure last October. I know that when a grandmother is ill and they are not there selves, it is very painful. My favorite part is about her coming out to play. My son is very close to her and he misses his GG playing and reading to him very much. I know how you feel and it is the worst kind of pain to watch someone you love so much go through all this. My one compfort is that I will never have any regrets and the fact that I know where she is going and who will be there to greet her. Thanks so the wonderful poem. jamie
Amber
I love this poem. Tara you are an amazing writer. I understand this poem and it moved me to tears. I lost my grandmother in May, not to Alzheimers; but there close to the end we thought maybe she had a touch of it. She was there but her memory was slowly going, one day when I went to visit her she looked at me like "Who are you and what are you doing in my room?" Of course after talking to her for a minute she snapped out of it and talked to me like nothing was wrong. I miss her terribly, she raised me and my brother and I wish she was here more everyday. But I know she is no longer suffering and she is watching over me. Thank you Tara for an amazing touching poem ~Amber~
Victoria
my great grandma past away last year and those are the same things my grandma used to do and she had alzheimers also. that poem touched my heart. i'm 15 right now and my grandma meant alot to me and my family. she would say the sam e thing but not anymore. this poem is very good and it inspired me to right one my grnadma. i usually do so i put them in the paper. Victoria
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